I've heard that the best way for two people to resolve a conflict is together. If two people have a problem with each other, they should try not to see the conflict as the two of them being against each other, but as the two of them working together against the problem. If you and I have a problem with each other, we shouldn't fight against each other; we should work together to solve, or at least minimize, the problem. Rather than seeing anyone as an adversary, I'd rather see people as potential allies against whatever problems we may have, even the problems we have are with each other.
People aren't perfect, and we're bound to make mistakes and decisions that create problems for each other, but that doesn't mean the we, ourselves, become problems for each other. Rather than seeing each other as sources of problems, we can see each other as potential sources for solutions. We can work with each other, rather than against each other, to find solutions to the true problems.
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